Zack de la Rocha Network Forum _ .:: "the hot seat" ::. _ Using The Word "gay"

: cosmic May 9 2003, 09:30 AM

Theres been a few posts on this board with people using the word "gay" or "faggot". Some say its "just a term" used with out any prejudices, while others get offended no matter what. My opinion is that using those are a "loaded gun". Meaning, they already have derogatory meaning around them when people use them in that fashion. Like saying..."that's ugly", some might say ..."that's gay". Does gay=ugly, bad, cheap,...etc.? What do you think about using those terms? We should learn and discuss everybodies opinion about this, no flames.



cosmic

: ozorage May 9 2003, 09:54 AM

i've never said anything was "gay" ... i don't even use it to mean "happy" .... it bugs me when people say "gay" and mean "ugly,bad,cheap...etc" cuz "gay" has come to mean homosexual and not just "happy"...so first off happy does not mean "ugly,bad,cheap...etc" and secondly i wouldn't like it much if people said "oh that's salvadoran" and it meaning "oh that's...ugly,bad,cheap...ect"

ya dig?

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: zapatista May 9 2003, 10:35 AM

Today "gay" means homosexual. That is pretty much the universal meaning of the word in the society we live in. So when you use gay to say something is bad I think it equals homosexuality is bad. Besides there are like a million other adjectives you can use to say something sucks...why gay? The one most likely to offend.

: Rage Man Leca May 9 2003, 12:07 PM

I agree with Zapatista, just say "this sucks" or that's stuipid.... why all this hate. I support Gay postive people and it really pisses me off when people use thoughs words. And then they say oh I didn't mean to use it... well next time you get in that situation, just don't say it.

Peace, love, Unity

Rage Man Leca
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: Manifest May 9 2003, 04:09 PM

why dont we censor the entire Forum to be fucking PC furious.gif

: cosmic May 9 2003, 04:23 PM

Manifest, its not about those words in this forum, its about their general use. I'm trying to figure out, like many, why people say it. ...its curiosity, plain and simple. What does censoring have to do about this?


cosmic

: Manifest May 9 2003, 04:23 PM

can I be the censorship police ( I'll rat every homophobe out and we can kick them off the forum, than we can bitch about our first amendement rights being violated when it comes to speaking out about manners that are of intrest)

: cosmic May 9 2003, 04:25 PM

What are you talking about? huh.gif



cosmic

: Manifest May 9 2003, 04:36 PM

I'm refering to the fact that some people are hypocrites, they do all kinds of bitching about free speech and how they are all for it but when it comes down to something they do not support they turn around and contradict themselves by saying that it is not right to say something because it may offend someone, and I think thats complete shit.gif

: cosmic May 9 2003, 04:56 PM

It is free speech and who's the hell is bitching? It's a discussion about a subject that we see all the time real life and in other message boards. Nobody's pointing fingers here, its about the subject matter. For the 2nd time, I really am interested in what people think about the usage of those terms, period. You're going off on a tangent.



By the way you're sounding, just because its free speech, its ok to say anything?

cosmic

: Manifest May 9 2003, 05:28 PM

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By the way you're sounding, just because its free speech, its ok to say anything?


In my opinion yes. I believe it is ok for anyone to say anything as long they are concious of the fact that have to accept responsilbilty for the comments they make, and that they should be prepared to recieve any backlash that comes their way because of 'em.

Example: you can talk shit about my mother, you got the freedom to, but you better be prepared to recieve an ass whoppin' for doing that.

: cosmic May 9 2003, 05:41 PM

QUOTE (Manifest @ May 9 2003, 06:28 PM)
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By the way you're sounding, just because its free speech, its ok to say anything?


In my opinion yes. I believe it is ok for anyone to say anything as long they are concious of the fact that have to accept responsilbilty for the comments they make, and that they should be prepared to recieve any backlash that comes their way because of 'em.

Example: you can talk shit about my mother, you got the freedom to, but you better be prepared to recieve an ass whoppin' for doing that.

I agree with you. You can state your opinion all day, and maybe get your ass kicked. The only thing I have to look out for people that post for the sole reason of writing infammatory personal remarks ( race, gender, religion,etc).


cosmic

: Grey Mouse May 10 2003, 01:50 AM

I find the term, when used to describe something, really offensive. Whenever they use it to describe anything, to me, it's the equivalent of a guy saying to another guy "You drive like a girl". It's an insult towards someone and puts down another group of people. I've never taken it as someone saying gay=happy, that just doesnt make sense to me. mellow.gif Just my feelin

: seditious beats May 10 2003, 09:34 AM

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QUOTE (Manifest @ May 8 2003, 12:33 AM)
the way that the word "gay" is being used by us is not in a derogatory to way towards all homosexuals


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This word is often used as slang to represent something that is not  cool and is in no way intended to disrespect the homosexual population everytime it is said.


Interesting orale.gif How's a gay person identified? "Gay"? So you see the problem? Nip it in the bud, compa'



: rage baby May 10 2003, 10:29 AM

ya i'm tired of ppl using the word "gay" as an adjective.

: RATM-EZLN May 10 2003, 09:08 PM

I agree with Manifest, i say what ever word i like to describe or refer what ever i feel like. Thats pretty much all i have to say.

: Manifest May 10 2003, 09:10 PM

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: Zero May 12 2003, 08:38 AM

I have a number of friends who are gay, and the term, 'gay', is pretty much the accepted term, though in some circles, 'queer' is no longer considered a term of abuse, either.

Z

: Leylya May 12 2003, 08:56 AM

In our language gay is n't bad,we use it always,if we call someone gay it doesn't mean that we hate this person or gay.But i think that depends on context. In Russia homophobia isn't very wide-spread. Nazism and
religious discords are much more than homophobia.

: mental_floss May 12 2003, 10:10 AM

I just think that it is important to be careful when using terms like “gay” as slang. When you think about the word gay you think of a person who is homosexual. So when you say that’s “gay”…well, you see the association. Big things start from small and if we use the term “gay” to say something is lame, then what’s next? “That’s _____” You fill in the blank with the slurs of your choice.

: Sara May 12 2003, 10:34 PM

i dont think it's appropriate when ppl say "gay" to describe ugly or lame or cheap, i think it's stupid and childish.

to me saying something is gay to give it negative attributes is just as bad as making a racist or sexist remark.


it's like me saying "ew it's so hispanic" u know what i mean, to me it's very offensive. this is not bout freedom of speech it's bout watching out for other ppl's feelings, and having the decency to respect everyone around u.

: Leylya May 13 2003, 02:24 AM

And how to call real gay?Without homophobia?If you want to know gays call themself gays too,i don't know how in another countries,but at my place they call. Churka or hachik for kavkazian, zhid for jew , red lace for comunist or uzkoglaziy for asian is much offensive than gay.

: seditious beats May 13 2003, 01:59 PM

^it's not about how offensive it is, it's about just being offensive.

: TheShootingStar May 13 2003, 04:03 PM

Man, I think this whole topic is just G.... j/k (don't have a cow.. lol)... But, for real though.. I agree with a lot of what Manifest was sayin.. A lot of people do contradict themselves when they say they are for free speech, but yet they are against stuff like this.. I also agree when he said if you say that kind of stuff, you should be willing to suffer the consequences.. ya know???

If I'm hanging around with a person that I know is gay or might be gay.. I wouldn't say nothin like that.. And thats just out of respect.. ya know????

But, at the same should I stop sayin and giving my opinion about stuff because I think it will offend people???? If thats the case I should just shut up about everything because it might offend someone.. ya know??



: zapatista May 13 2003, 04:22 PM

^look, i'm all for free speech! Say what you will, it's all good. As Chomsky said "If we don't believe in freedom of speech for those we despise, we don't believe in it at all" I don't think anyone is saying that people can't use the word..no one is trying to censor here. I just think that Freedom of speech should be used for more important things then saying "oh, that's Gay". Just my thought though. If your going to use your freedom of speech say something important!

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Zapatista

: TheShootingStar May 13 2003, 04:48 PM

QUOTE (zapatista @ May 14 2003, 12:22 AM)
^look, i'm all for free speech! Say what you will, it's all good. As Chomsky said "If we don't believe in freedom of speech for those we despise, we don't believe in it at all" I don't think anyone is saying that people can't use the word..no one is trying to censor here. I just think that Freedom of speech should be used for more important things then saying "oh, that's Gay". Just my thought though. If your going to use your freedom of speech say something important!

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Zapatista

"no one is trying to censor here." Please!!!!!! From what I have been reading it sounds like a lot of people are trying to get that little phrase censored out.. lol..

: RATM-EZLN May 13 2003, 04:59 PM

QUOTE (zapatista @ May 13 2003, 04:22 PM)
If your going to use your freedom of speech say something important!

what if we have nothing important to say?? huh.gif we lose our freedom of speech, and gain it back when we have something important to say??... mellow.gif

: zapatista May 13 2003, 05:07 PM

^hahaha I see your meaning. All I'm saying is WHY GAY? No one has been able to give a clear answer. I keep hearing freedom of speech...that's not clear enough for me. smile.gif
That's all i'm saying...dig? wink.gif

: RATM-EZLN May 13 2003, 05:47 PM

QUOTE (zapatista @ May 13 2003, 05:07 PM)
^hahaha I see your meaning. All I'm saying is WHY GAY? No one has been able to give a clear answer. I keep hearing freedom of speech...that's not clear enough for me. smile.gif
That's all i'm saying...dig? wink.gif

maybve cuzz its shorter than homosexual? or..cuzz....i dunno...how does "thats straight" sound..?..i dunno..cuzz maybe the "normal" thing (even though i think normal is a stupid word) would be for some1 to be heterosexual..and being gay..not normal...there for... saying "thats gay" could mean..like "thats not normal", i dont know, its just a word.

: cosmic May 13 2003, 05:54 PM

QUOTE (TheShootingStar @ May 13 2003, 05:48 PM)
QUOTE (zapatista @ May 14 2003, 12:22 AM)
^look, i'm all for free speech! Say what you will, it's all good. As Chomsky said "If we don't believe in freedom of speech for those we despise, we don't believe in it at all" I don't think anyone is saying that people can't use the word..no one is trying to censor here. I just think that Freedom of speech should be used for more important things then saying "oh, that's Gay". Just my thought though. If your going to use your freedom of speech say something important!

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Zapatista

"no one is trying to censor here." Please!!!!!! From what I have been reading it sounds like a lot of people are trying to get that little phrase censored out.. lol..

If you're talking about the board, this has nothing to do with censoring nor will it ever be censored.


cosmic

: Rage Man Leca May 13 2003, 06:16 PM

Good, ah cosmic you so cool!
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: TheShootingStar May 13 2003, 07:52 PM

QUOTE (cosmic @ May 14 2003, 01:54 AM)
If you're talking about the board, this has nothing to do with censoring nor will it ever be censored.


cosmic

No, I'm talkin about what people have been sayin in their posts... I'm sayin it seems like people are trying to tell you what and what not to say..

: cosmic May 13 2003, 08:01 PM

QUOTE (TheShootingStar @ May 13 2003, 08:52 PM)
QUOTE (cosmic @ May 14 2003, 01:54 AM)
If you're talking about the board, this has nothing to do with censoring nor will it ever be censored.


cosmic

No, I'm talkin about what people have been sayin in their posts... I'm sayin it seems like people are trying to tell you what and what not to say..

I don't think they're trying to tell people what too say, its just that this topic is so polar. Either its really inapproprate to say or it has no meaning, its just a word. Given that...I havent heard the reason as to why the word "gay" has to be used? That's what I don't get. Is there a root meaning?



cosmic

: TheShootingStar May 13 2003, 10:16 PM

QUOTE (cosmic @ May 14 2003, 04:01 AM)
Either its really inapproprate to say or it has no meaning, its just a word. Given that...I havent heard the reason as to why the word "gay" has to be used? That's what I don't get. Is there a root meaning?



cosmic

Gay meaning.. Not cool...

: seditious beats May 14 2003, 12:15 AM

QUOTE (RATM-EZLN @ May 14 2003, 01:47 AM)
maybve cuzz its shorter than homosexual? or..cuzz....i dunno...how does "thats straight" sound..?..i dunno..cuzz maybe the "normal" thing (even though i think normal is a stupid word) would be for some1 to be heterosexual..and being gay..not normal...there for... saying "thats gay" could mean..like "thats not normal", i dont know, its just a word.

read this to yourself again. she's not asking why the word is used to identify homosexuality, but why it's the chosen word to say something's not cool. no, it's not just a word. your name is not just a word by which you identify yourself with, seen?

: Sara May 14 2003, 02:21 AM

^ exactly, it's not about using it to describe someone's sexuality like saying straight.


the topic is bout why use it to mean cheap or ugly, as in use it in a sense which in theory it doesn't represent.



so far, all u guys are saying is "freedom of speech" and "gay is not cool" what...? rolleyes.gif

: Radisshu May 14 2003, 05:10 AM

er, i gotta confess i use the swedish word for 'gay' as an insult, but only towards those who dislike gay people.. cause they get mad. i have nothing against homosexuals.

: Moremi May 14 2003, 05:36 AM

What I would like to know is, why do people get so bent out of shape when someone uses the word "gay" and no one says anything when someone uses the word "nigga" ????? The word "nigga" from my point of view is far more derogatory than the word "gay" which has meanings other than homosexuality.

When "nigga" was used on this board no one complained. No one started a thread about it. unsure.gif From what I remember, the only people who spoke up were myself and Sarah. A few other things that were clearly prejudice remarks about blacks have been made and again, not a peep. So, I guess it's ok to offend an entire group of people as long as it's not your group? Or a group you identify with? huh.gif

I agree with Manifest about the hypocrisy in this argument.

People will argue that nigga has a different meaning in hip hop culture, well so does gay. If one is acceptable here, why isn't the other?

: seditious beats May 14 2003, 10:57 AM

QUOTE (ZDLRfan @ May 14 2003, 01:36 PM)
What I would like to know is, why do people get so bent out of shape when someone uses the word "gay" and no one says anything when someone uses the word "nigga" ?????






because we're talking about the word "gay" here.

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The word "nigga" from my point of view is far more derogatory than the word "gay" which has meanings other than homosexuality.

it's not about which is more/less offensive.

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When "nigga" was used on this board no one complained. No one started a thread about it. unsure.gif  

i'll speak for myself and say i didn't see it.

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From what I remember, the only people who spoke up were myself and Sarah. A few other things that were clearly prejudice remarks about blacks have been made and again, not a peep.

again, i missed it, i don't read through the threads as thoroughly, i guess. and what's up with the "me and sarah" all the time?

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So, I guess it's ok to offend an entire group of people as long as it's not your group? Or a group you identify with? huh.gif

i'm gay? news to me.

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People will argue that nigga has a different meaning in hip hop culture, well so does gay. If one is acceptable here, why isn't the other?

has anybody argued about the meaning of "nigga" in hip hop culture here?


: Moremi May 14 2003, 12:31 PM

QUOTE (seditious beats @ May 14 2003, 02:57 PM)
because we're talking about the word "gay" here.

Really? ohno.gif Thanks for pointing out the obvious. But other people have mentioned in their argument that saying "gay" is just as offensive as saying "how hispanic", etc. and the need to be sensitive towards a persons race, gender and sexual preference. So race was already injected in this discussion. I'm really not interested in trying to convince anyone why it's relevant that this is an issue and other inflamatory remarks have not been. It's relevant to me.

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it's not about which is more/less offensive.

I never said it was about that. I just find it odd that I don't see this type of response to other words that are just as derogatory. I also find it odd that we have cartman.gif kenny.gif as emoticons yet we're criticisizing someone for using the word gay. Come on people, South Park? You just don't get any further from political correctness than that.

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i'll speak for myself and say i didn't see it.

If you didn't see, then I'm not talking about you, am I?

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again, i missed it, i don't read through the threads as thoroughly, i guess. and what's up with the "me and sarah" all the time?

What in god's name are you talking about? unsure.gif

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i'm gay? news to me

I never said you or anyone else was gay. You don't have to be apart of a group to identify with its cause, struggle, etc.

: Radisshu May 14 2003, 01:18 PM

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well, if everyone were politically correct, where the fuck would humour be? seriously! as long as i don't say "KILL ALL GAY PEOPLE!(/black, white, asian, etc...)" a little joking doesn't hurt anyone, if the people of that particular "group" (although i say 'fuck groups', be an individual) can laugh as well... well, there'll always be more or less sensitive people, but screw them. or..er.. well, it's kind of impossible for me to be too sensitive, sorry =P... (maybe it's because of those damn old viking relatives or sumthin)

: Mirylla May 14 2003, 01:54 PM

QUOTE (Radisshu @ May 14 2003, 10:18 PM)
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well, if everyone were politically correct, where the fuck would humour be? seriously! as long as i don't say "KILL ALL GAY PEOPLE!(/black, white, asian, etc...)" a little joking doesn't hurt anyone, if the people of that particular "group" (although i say 'fuck groups', be an individual) can laugh as well... well, there'll always be more or less sensitive people, but screw them. or..er.. well, it's kind of impossible for me to be too sensitive, sorry =P... (maybe it's because of those damn old viking relatives or sumthin)

I noticed how you said "if the people of THAT particular "group" ", you didn't say ANY particular group, does it include your own group?
Anyway, those kind of jokes are usually funny when used by the same group or by friends. If not, they aren't generally welcome...
Another important thing besides free speech... RESPECT!!!


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: Moremi May 14 2003, 02:07 PM

Those are all very good points M...very true wink.gif

: seditious beats May 14 2003, 02:43 PM

we're dancing around the question that still has not been answered. why are these words being used? others say it, so one says it, too? i think that's it. responsibility, respect, etc... where do they come into play? maybe "freedom of speech" is used as an excuse for irresponsibility, negligence? "freedom" is misused.

ed did it: south park is a pretty intelligent show, believe it or not. there's always something thought-provoking to the said or insinuated. these kids grow up in the burbs, out of touch. when it's used for humor sometimes, it's to point out and make obvious a problem by exaggerating, but when the word is just used as another word in one's vocabulary, that's obviously not the same.

: Moremi May 14 2003, 02:57 PM

QUOTE (seditious beats @ May 14 2003, 06:43 PM)
we're dancing around the question that still has not been answered.  why are these words being used?  others say it, so one says it, too?  i think that's it.  responsibility, respect, etc... where do they come into play?  maybe "freedom of speech" is used as an excuse for irresponsibility, negligence?  "freedom" is misused.

Well, I can't speak for everyone but I don't think it's always an excuse. Sometimes, it depends on the individual saying it. Sometimes, it has to do with the environment you come from. I choose not to use certain words but I'm not always offended when others use them because there is an understanding of what is being said.

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ed did it: south park is a pretty intelligent show, believe it or not. there's always something thought-provoking to the said or insinuated. these kids grow up in the burbs, out of touch. when it's used for humor sometimes, it's to point out and make obvious a problem by exaggerating, but when the word is just used as another word in one's vocabulary, that's obviously not the same.


So says you. That show is full of stereotypes against gay people, blacks and the mentally disabled. It's offensive! And why is it acceptable to you when a character on South Park says "that is so gay" but here it's an insult?

: seditious beats May 14 2003, 05:07 PM

QUOTE (ZDLRfan @ May 14 2003, 10:57 PM)
Well, I can't speak for everyone but I don't think it's always an excuse. Sometimes, it depends on the individual saying it. Sometimes, it has to do with the environment you come from. I choose not to use certain words but I'm not always offended when others use them because there is an understanding of what is being said.

of course it is not always an excuse, but in this case, i think we're educated enough here to know better. is that why you choose not to say certain words?

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So says you. That show is full of stereotypes against gay people, blacks and the mentally disabled. It's offensive! And why is it acceptable to you when a character on South Park says "that is so gay" but here it's an insult?


the cartoon takes place in the burbs, the characters are kids not in the know of reality outside their li'l box town, like in real life, but exaggerated. it points this out, or no?

: rev79 May 31 2003, 09:52 AM

I don't believe there's anything wrong with using the word gay as an adjective. 'This movie is gay' or 'this song is gay', there's nothing wrong with that usage. But when you firmly start using that kind of term in the direction of an individual, then there is a problem I suppose. In this day and age we have multiple meanings for many words, which is why its acceptable, you just have to know when to use them.

: Manifest May 31 2003, 09:58 AM

^ I totally agree with you, I guess it's different depending on your peer group becuase when im with certain people I can use that word freely, like with the cats I play ball with, we use that word freely and we dont intend to use it in reference to homosexuals

: Sara Jun 1 2003, 07:38 PM

QUOTE (revolutionusa @ Jun 1 2003, 06:52 AM)
I don't believe there's anything wrong with using the word gay as an adjective. 'This movie is gay' or 'this song is gay', there's nothing wrong with that usage. But when you firmly start using that kind of term in the direction of an individual, then there is a problem I suppose. In this day and age we have multiple meanings for many words, which is why its acceptable, you just have to know when to use them.

but this is not about multiple meanings. we're not talking about gay meaning happy, or gay meanng homosexual. u say "this movie is gay" what do u actually mean?

: rev79 Jun 1 2003, 10:01 PM

Just uncool is all.

: Sara Jun 1 2003, 10:06 PM

QUOTE (revolutionusa @ Jun 2 2003, 07:01 PM)
Just uncool is all.

see that's what i'm against


what's uncool bout being gay, ur giving the movie negative attributes when using gay, i dont think its right.


it's like saying (and i've given this example before) "this is so hispanic" meaning cheap or stupid, does it make sense? i don't thnk so, is it offensive? for sure it is. and it's wrong.


i can't think of any valid reason why ppl need to be this prejudice against underrepresented groups in society.

: Grey Mouse Jun 2 2003, 03:20 AM

Always getting to the party late, arent I? wavenew.gif

OK, people..... Sarah IS completely right. Look, how can you say that using the word 'gay' as a negative attribute is somehow completely ok because it is not AIMED at someone who's homosexual? It's the SAME fucking WORD.

Ok, the possible meanings are: either in old usage, to mean happy, or in modern usage, meaning homosexual. There are not multiple meanings for gay when your using it as a negative adjective, bc we KNOW your not using it to describe happy.

Ok, let's get intellectual. Maybe your trying to express something which has somehow in someone's mind SOMEWHERE, come to mean 'gay' by loose, ignorant association but you're trying to say BAD... could kitsch be the word your searching for? Or camp? I don't know. I don't want to assume. I just don't see anything right in using 'gay' to describe anything, simply bc in modern english the word is accepted as meaning homosexual, and therefore your making it negative.

Sonja, soz I missed this whole thread after my post on the first page. I never saw 'nigga' get used either, but if I did I woulda caused a furor... grin.gif

: Moremi Jun 2 2003, 10:43 AM

The word "gay" has other meanings besides "happy" or homosexual. According to Miriam Webster, gay also means "given to social pleasures; licentious"

: Manifest Jun 2 2003, 07:42 PM

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"this is so hispanic" meaning cheap or stupid
laugh.gif I use that line all the time especially when I ask mi padre for lana, im like "damn veijo way are you so Beanner" (hispanc/cheap)

: Manifest Jun 2 2003, 07:44 PM

Speaking of the word Beanner im goin' to use that like the brothas use the N word then im going to get all offended when someone of a different race uses it

: Manifest Jun 2 2003, 07:48 PM

Scratch that it sounds a lot cooler if I say Beannah,

Like " Yo, what up my Beannah..., Peace out Beannah..., Damn you Beannah's be trippin, cuz'"

: Sara Jun 3 2003, 12:01 AM

^ whaaaaa??


im so confused!! unsure.gif

: Moremi Jun 3 2003, 12:23 AM

QUOTE (Manifest @ Jun 2 2003, 11:44 PM)
Speaking of the word Beanner im goin' to use that like the brothas use the N word then im going to get all offended when someone of a different race uses it

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Scratch that it sounds a lot cooler if I say Beannah,

Like " Yo, what up my Beannah..., Peace out Beannah..., Damn you Beannah's be trippin, cuz'


I don't know if these remarks were meant to be sarcastic but if they were that was an extremely ignorant and insensitive thing to say! Are you trying to say black people should not get offend when non-blacks use the word "nigga"? Or something else? Explain please.

: Sara Jun 3 2003, 01:28 AM

QUOTE (Manifest @ Jun 3 2003, 04:42 PM)
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"this is so hispanic" meaning cheap or stupid
laugh.gif I use that line all the time especially when I ask mi padre for lana, im like "damn veijo way are you so Beanner" (hispanc/cheap)

is he your real father? unsure.gif


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Speaking of the word Beanner im goin' to use that like the brothas use the N word then im going to get all offended when someone of a different race uses it



laugh.gif how bout NO mellow.gif


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Scratch that it sounds a lot cooler if I say Beannah, Like " Yo, what up my Beannah..., Peace out Beannah..., Damn you Beannah's be trippin, cuz'"


the problem is, people like you, when u belong to an underrepresented ethinc group, it's twice as hard to be taken seriously, and to get equal rights as everyone else, what do u do? you go and use those terms that are meant to degrade your culture, and tell us it's ok, well...thats' just beyond me...i don't understand....instead of taking a stand against prejudice, ur copying ppl u see on TV coz it's so cool to say "nigga", it's not cool... mellow.gif



of course, it'll be all clearer when u explain what your trying to convey here.

: blAHchYd Jun 5 2003, 10:22 AM

"Does gay=ugly, bad, cheap,...etc.? "


I believe that there are people who want others to feel that gay is Ugly, Bad, Cheap, Not-Right, UnChristian, Uncatholic, Un_______(place religions' name here)

The same people who would support the creation and sustenance of Separate Fountains.....because

White People who drink from Black People fountains are bad, ugly, cheap, etc..... I'm sure that in those days, these little females would be TOTALLY against doing it because they would be verbally assaulted and systematically-humiliated.

I stress females because the same system that was designed to Create A Separation Of Black drinkers and White drinkers is the same system that seeks the subservance of the Female.

You think that "Johnny Cool" didn't use his "don't be a chicken....just hate blacks and call them names and stick with me, mr atlas while my daddy makes the laws that nurture our hate?"

like the John Lennon song says, "Woman is the nigger of the world"

: Dreamcatcher Jun 30 2003, 03:33 PM

QUOTE (cosmic @ May 9 2003, 05:30 PM)
Theres been a few posts on this board with people using the word "gay" or "faggot". Some say its "just a term" used with out any prejudices, while others get offended no matter what. My opinion is that using those are a "loaded gun". Meaning, they already have derogatory meaning around them when people use them in that fashion. Like saying..."that's ugly", some might say ..."that's gay". Does gay=ugly, bad, cheap,...etc.? What do you think about using those terms? We should learn and discuss everybodies opinion about this, no flames.



cosmic

I think using the word "faggot" is just plain wrong. I think using the word gay to mean something other then what it really means is disgusting.

My friend Melissa said to me one time "Do I tell you my cousin is gay?" I said "No when did he tell everybody?" She said "A few months ago and I'm far from against it but now everytime I say something is gay my aunt freaks out, I'm not homophobic I just say it when something is stupid." I said "That's why Melissa" She had nothing to say after that.

I see no point in it. There are already words for those things use those. Two of my bestfriends are gay and I see everyday how it effects them. I've never used those words in that way even before they told me and I see no reason to.

: Everdream Jul 1 2003, 04:38 AM

well the misunderstanding is that through time, the word 'gay' has evolved into another for 'shit' 'useless' etc, and most likely doesnt reflect personal opinion. why it's happened? my only understanding is that its well known that homosexuals were once and in most cases are still looked down upon, and through the ages the word has been commonly used but in general has taken on a different meaning..

for example.. how many people do u know that say "man thats fuckn sick"... 4 years ago i woulda been like ''sick????'

im probably rambling and not making sense but i just think its use is too heavily contested and through time has just become an alternative to 'shit' or 'crap' because of its roots holding negativity, and through continuation taking on a different meaning.

: ucanrefer2meas7 Jul 2 2003, 04:52 PM

QUOTE (rage baby @ May 10 2003, 06:29 PM)
ya i'm tired of ppl using the word "gay" as an adjective.

I really don't think it matters what words you use, the only thing people should be concerned about is the meaning behind the words, not connotations. Take it in context and hear it like it was meant to be heard.

: cosmic Jul 2 2003, 04:57 PM

QUOTE (ucanrefer2meas7 @ Jul 2 2003, 05:52 PM)
Take it in context and hear it like it was meant to be heard.

Can you expand on that?

Welcome, BTW. wavenew.gif

: R3N3G4D3 Jul 2 2003, 06:01 PM

joking around and calling someone gay meaning your stupid or you idiot is one this...hating someone becuz they are gay is a nother....i am not saying its wrong or right...im saying God made us to cherish the oppisite sex (Adam and Eve) think about it

: Everdream Jul 8 2003, 06:33 AM

well by saying that renegade ur assuming no one here is atheist - think about it

: ratmgirl Jul 11 2003, 05:34 AM

QUOTE (R3N3G4D3 @ Jul 3 2003, 02:01 AM)
joking around and calling someone gay meaning your stupid or you idiot is one this...hating someone becuz they are gay is a nother....i am not saying its wrong or right...im saying God made us to cherish the oppisite sex (Adam and Eve) think about it

I'm atheist, so this Adam and Eve thing doesn't really apply to me. What drives me batty is when people say "God created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve." Oh, give me a break.
I find the word gay, fine. But "faggot" now, that's entirely different.
I may say, "that's gay" as in stupid, like a lot of people do. It's not like i'm saying "oh, that's faggy" or whatever because that's just not cool.

: fishy! Feb 12 2007, 11:26 PM

It should be used in its correct term. i am very sencitive about the way it's used. I'm glad to see others that feel the same way. thanks

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